Getting Old & Wanting to Learn
Jul 11th, 2007 by Manerva
Growing up I worked on a horse farm named Kingsport Horse Farm. They raised the most beautiful Thoroughbreds and my school bus passed by the place every morning and afternoon. I think I was in the 5Th grade when I started bugging my parents and the owners of the horse farm to let me work there after school. It took a whole year of getting my grades up (that was the requisite) but when I was in the 6Th grade I was finally allowed to feed horses every day after school and clean stalls on Saturday and Sunday mornings. I loved it. They did not pay much and sometimes they didn’t pay at all- but I worked there ’till I was a junior in high school when they quite paying the paychecks- I think they still owe me $90.00. From there I moved on to cleaning house for a local Judge and motel rooms at a local hotel. I knew exactly where money came from, and I wanted more. In fact I would have quit school and went to work- to me money was more interesting than sitting in a class room, and I hated school anyhow so it made sense.
Needless to say my parents made me go and I finished high school, enrolling in Law Enforcement for college. By the time summer came to a close I was not going back to school- and they couldn’t make me. I reasoned that I didn’t want to waste my parents money on something I was not sure of since I really disliked school. To me it was a good choice, and I am still happy with it today, but things change.
I use to made $46,000.00 a year up until I married. Unfortunatly that took care of the fun and games so to speak. Husband didn’t like my job, I was never home and I wanted to be with him. Since our marriage I have had to reinvent myself. And I wasn’t going to go work some place just to work. I loved my old job- because it really wasn’t a job at all and I was damn good at it and I wanted that again. But as you get older things change. Life changes.
Fast forward a few years- I don’t make what I use to but I own my own business, work from home, and love it. I find it funny though because I am doing things that I use to be against; like going to school. School actually comes to me once a month but I am liking it and the teacher. She teaches me all about business-my business and how to run it and I figure I will have a huge degree by the time I’m done because I enjoy it so.
I now have another school I want to go to and this is the real reason for this post. John C. Campbell Folk School.
John C. Campbell Folk School provides experiences in non-competitive learning and community life that are joyful and enlivening. Located in scenic Brasstown, North Carolina, the Folk School offers year-round weeklong and weekend classes for adults in craft, art, music, dance, cooking, gardening, nature studies, photography and writing.
Doesn’t it sound just wonderful? I have yet to decide what exactly I want to go to the school for, but I have narrowed my choices down to photography, pottery, beginning clawhammer banjo or beginning fiddle. I really love music, bluegrass is a favorite so the fiddle and banjo really have my interest piqued. I guess I might just have to plan on 4 trips instead of one.
That is when my business takes off in leaps and bounds…and life changes once again.
Hi Manerva!
I came to your site after you left a comment on mine.
I also have a love/hate relationship with school. I love Mark Twain’s quote: “Never let schooling get in the way of your education.”
I left college for similar reasons. I went back over a year later, but for a very specific reason, and on my own terms. Well, as you said, life changes, and my reason no longer seemed reasonable, but I bit the bullet till I graduated because at that point, I had a scholarship that made a degree a hell of a good bargain, and I love good bargains.
I don’t think I’d ever return to school except to learn very specific things that interest me or that have practical applications. Besides, a formal degree won’t pull much weight in the farming world–it’s experience and good sense that counts in this arena.
Anyway, I’m glad you’ve come to terms with school and the role it can play in your life. Thanks for sharing!
-Krystle